Check it out, y’all, my name is immortalized in nail polish by Plump, a nail polish line manufactured by the lovely Margitte and Kyla. You may know them from their work on “The Internet”. It’s a nail polish line named after various fabulous Internet luminaries. Mine is Pepto pink with glitter and shimmer and such, [...]
Listen To Me Talk Sexy to You
Have you ever wondered how I sound when I talk about sex? Ever wanted to ask me to elaborate on any of the articles I’ve written? Well, this Saturday, February 9, 2013, at 3 PM Eastern time, I’m going to be speaking at the Body Positive Dating Master Class along with Hanne Blank and Virgie [...]
The Only Skins You Ever Hit Was the Skins on Your Right Hand
So. I’ve been spending a lot of time on Twitter lately. Before I get into this, I will go ahead and say that this rant is specifically targeted at straight cis men. Let me also say that I am all for having standards regarding who you will or won’t date and who you you will [...]
This Motion Has Got Me Wet Like Crazy: 90s Slow Jams
My sexual coming-of-age took place in the 90s, the decade in which I spent the entirety of my teenage years. It was a time when blatantly sexual R&B/slow jams were really coming into their prime, and thus made up a large portion of what whet my aural appetite. It was also a time when I [...]
The Intersection of Greatness and Race, or Why The Hell is NBC Such a Dick to Our Own Athletes?
When I was a kid I would watch the winter and summer Olympics with rapt attention every 4 years, religiously. Then I got married and stopped, I think because my ex-husband wasn’t into sports so I had no one to watch it with, or maybe I decided I was too cool for the Olympics now [...]
Guts & Glory
Being raw and emotionally vulnerable in public is not something I’m very comfortable with. Talking loudly about sex acts, bodily fluids and consuming large quantities of cake products in public doesn’t bother me. Having my tits hanging half out or my skirt hiked up past my ass in public barely registers on my “for shame” [...]
In Defense of Fat
There is a widespread belief in Western culture that it is necessary to police the health of every fat person. Judgments are made about the state of the inside of fat bodies based on the appearance of the outside of their bodies. Most people don’t see that as a negative thing, or an inappropriate thing. [...]
When Fat Chicks Give Better Head
I did a post on Bitch called “Unicorns, Better Head and Other Myths” in which I briefly brought up the commonly-held belief that fat girls are better at blowjobs. Namely because they have such low self-esteem that they’re grateful for the opportunity to get anywhere near a dick, so they get really good at it. [...]
The Fat Girl’s Guide to Feeling Sexy: Take a Trip to the Toy Store
One of my suggestions to fat girls who want to learn to love their bodies is to learn to love your body. By which I mean, get intimate with yourself, explore what feels good to your individual body and learn to associate your fat body with pleasure. A great way to do that is through [...]
Sex and the Fat Girl: Basking in the Afterglow
This column has come to an end! I hope what we discussed helped you learn to love yourself a bit more. And, of course, I hope it made you think a bit and challenge assumptions about fat sexuality and societal beauty standards. My goal is to enlighten and deconstruct, to help fat women empower themselves [...]
- Plump Polish: Get Me All Over Your Fingers
- Listen To Me Talk Sexy to You
- The Only Skins You Ever Hit Was the Skins on Your Right Hand
- This Motion Has Got Me Wet Like Crazy: 90s Slow Jams
- The Intersection of Greatness and Race, or Why The Hell is NBC Such a Dick to Our Own Athletes?
- As Fat As I Wanna Be
- My Fat, Your Issues
- Being Black In Washington State
- When Fat Chicks Give Better Head
- Killing the Muse
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