One of my suggestions to fat girls who want to learn to love their bodies is to learn to love your body. By which I mean, get intimate with yourself, explore what feels good to your individual body and learn to associate your fat body with pleasure. A great way to do that is through the use of toys. For fat girls, we sometimes have concerns that require creativity in which toys we can use. I’m a Babeland affiliate, so I’ve compiled a list of toys that I think may work well with fat bodies (some I’ve tried, some I haven’t).
Hitachi Magic Wand – We’ve been together for 11 years and our bond is unshakable. Seriously, this is the best investment I’ve ever made. It’s substantial enough that it can navigate the fat down there that might make it difficult to use a smaller vibe. It works, every time. Can’t say that about just anything.
Rabbit Pearl – Okay, I have one of these and the g-spot stimulation is excellent. I find the clitoral stimulation of the rabbit ears to be kind of lacking for me, but as you may have guessed, I’m kind of spoiled by the Magic Wand, so if you’re more sensitive it probably does something. But that rotating head and the pearls and all that are winning.
We-Vibe – This was on Oprah. It’s a vibrator to be used during partner sex, specifically penetration. I haven’t tried it, but for me I feel like my vadge is maybe too small for that to fit in there WITH a penis/dildo/whatever, but who knows. It sounds promising, it stimulates the clit and the g-spot. Check out this video on how to use it:
Crown Harness – I remember when this harness first came out, I was pretty excited they had made one that works with fat bellies. It makes it so much easier since your belly isn’t blocking your ability to go at it.
Magnum Dildo – This dildo is great for penetration on its own, or you can use in the above-mentioned harness if you so desire. It’s longer, which is good for fat girls because you don’t have to worry about it not getting deep enough (or falling out).
Nexus – If you’ve got the anatomy, this double dildo is awesome. It works in a harness, and while being used simultaneously gives the wearer vaginal penetration. Quite useful, I think.
Silver Bullet – I was actually inspired to include this by a monologue in Erica Watson’s “Fat Bitch!”. She talks about wandering into a Babeland in NYC looking for something to give her her first orgasm. She’s given this vibe by one of the workers, but she’s skeptical about it being able to do anything what with it being so small. Eventually she tried it, and of course ended up loving it…again and again. So I present it here to you, road tested and approved by Ms. Watson.
Well, that’s MY list. Do you have any favorite toys you’d like to suggest that work for fat girls? Let me know!